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Morning coffee on the porch, everyone greeting the day slow, groggy-eyed holding warm mugs and snuggling.
Brothers bent over tackle box.
Auntie feeding nephew.
His little round tummy and bright happy eyes.
Sisters in a row, catching up and catching wind in their hair.
Sibling date (sans our kids!) in the town of Watkins Glen, getting pizza and Ben & Jerry’s and the most delightful little yarn store.
Walking the marina together.
Tubing and wakeboarding and running the boat until it ran dry.
Campfire gatherings in the evening, knitting and talking and playing guitar.
Squirt guns and barefoot bike rides and bubbles.
The boy coloring all over his body and face during nap time, “Line Man” as daddy declared him.
Mom and Dad stealing away for a tandem kayak in the whipping sun and wind.
Nap time watercolor quiet.
All the babies sleeping soundly under quilts.
Early morning glory in the sky and last sunsets set aflame with 4th of July fireworks.
All this glory, all these holy ordinary moments, hemmed in by sunrises and sunsets. Â Morning and evening, days ticking by, and us trying to squeeze from them every last drop, us trying to savor this never-to-be-repeated now. Â These are the very best moments of all, the ones we almost miss, the ones we pass over. Â It’s all good, but these are my favorite.
(Other trip posts here, here, and here.)



























































































































Our family trip began around the idea of a surprise 60th anniversary party for Brandon’s grandparent’s.  What an incredible reason to gather!  After some health scares and setbacks for grandpa earlier this year we were especially thankful to be able to visit with them and see their home and celebrate their commitment to one another for so many years.  We are grateful for that incredible legacy!  A surprise party was planned for the day after we arrived, and was very well executed, small and intimate and just the closest of family and friends.  The best moment was seeing Gma walk through the door and her eyes widen as she realized over and over all these familiar faces circled before her, before bursting into tears.  So worth it all to be a part of that moment.  She had apparently been telling Brandon’s mom how much she wished she could see all the great grandkids but probably wouldn’t be traveling much now with grandpa’s health concerns.  What a treat to come to her!  We hugged and mingled and reconnected with lots of aunts and uncles and cousins, we introduced Gma and Gpa to Philippa, whom they haven’t met yet.  We watched second cousins meet and share toys and play.  We prayed and had dinner together and cake!  Auntie Cerissa had made a special gluten-free cake just for Phoebe, which made her feel so loved.  Afterwards I put my arm around Gma and asked her, “So tell me, what is the secret to sixty years of marriage?”  She quickly responded, “Not keeping secrets!”  And then she passed on a few other gems of advice, reminding me that no one is perfect and that we have to be thankful, forgive, laugh at ourselves, because sixty years is a long time!





































