Christmas memories

This year we didn’t travel to a far-off tree farm to cut our own tree. We all missed the tradition greatly, but with the effects of the Hurricane on the region, it made sense to stay closer to home. We love to have our tree up before the beginning of Advent as it is much-anticipated to do our daily Advent reading and coloring of ornaments for the Jesse tree within the glow of all the Christmas decorations. Every year the decorating of the tree is a little different as the children grow. This year it was a particular delight to have Titus join us and seem to understand and get caught up in the wonder and joy of decorating.

The kids begged to decorate Christmas cookies this year, and I’m grateful we were able to squeeze it in and make it happen.

Favorite things from Christmas morning: the way Noah grabs Titus’ stocking with his own and brings it to Titus, the way he’s always seeing and taking care of his little brother. Titus being so excited about his own candy in his stocking, bringing everything to everyone and holding his treasures up to our faces. The way the kids all gave each other gifts, and their complete excitement to see others open the gifts they gave. How they’re catching the spirit of Christmas and finding it true that it is better to give than to receive. There truly is nothing better than being with children on Christmas. Also, it was a delight to make candied lemon and rosemary for an orange glazed gluten free vegan lemon bundt cake to take to Christmas dinner with family. All the gathering, feasting, sharing of love, celebrating and rejoicing. Sometimes it is exhausting but what better way to end the year!

Phoebe turns 14

A few days after Noah’s birthday and just before Christmas, we celebrate our Phoebe girl. What a year she has had! I won’t go into details, but she received a difficult and rare medical diagnosis early in the year, underwent a slew of tests, and started medications. While we mourned, adjusted, and learned, Phoebe carried on with courage and a quiet confidence. This girl is so easy to celebrate. She is joyful and delightful despite the many challenges she faces. She asked for blueberry muffins for breakfast, and she still enjoyed hunting around for her hidden birthday presents. She received a new bible, which she had requested, some new chapter books, an embroidery kit, journal, a special dress from Little Cottonwood, earrings, some new horseback riding pants, and a pair of hand knit socks. Regrettably, her birthday sweater wasn’t quite done in time for her big day but I finished it up a few weeks later. She loves reading and crafting of all sorts so she was thrilled. Her birthday was a frigid day so we decided to stay home and be cozy and her best friend came over to hang out for most of the day which was a treat for Phoebe.

She asked for banana pudding for her birthday dessert, a favorite of hers and Brandon’s.

She is lovely and dear beyond words. What a piercingly beautiful thing it is to watch her grow up into this incredible, bright, compassionate, creative, diligent young woman. She and I also got to have a special one-on-one overnight getaway in January after the busy rush of the holidays was over. We binge-watched our current favorite show, Heartland, and had lots of cozy crafting time and cups of tea. Oh how I miss my little tiny Phoebe girl, but it is true, the teenage years and the enjoyment of friendship and discussions together is a wonderful thing to grow into. I treasure this girl with all my heart, admiring her courage, faith, and strength. God has mighty good things in store for her!

noah’s twelfth

Late December came, the week of Christmas, and with it Noah’s twelfth birthday. He requested chocolate chip waffles for breakfast, and as always the day began with hunting for hidden gifts and opening them. He received a hand knit hoodie as well as a beanie, which I had meant to knit for him a couple of years ago. It fits a bit wonky, I think the issues is in the type of wool (it’s not very stretchy), but I do love the pattern and will maybe reknit it in a different yarn. He also received a wood burning kit, some books, and a RC car. Noah always requests to go for a hike on his birthday, and we just so happened to have beautiful weather that day. We hiked in a nearby wilderness area with lots of waterfalls, and it was a long hike but so worthwhile!

We sure do love our Noah man. He loves to tinker, to take things apart and figure out how they work. He loves to make noise and has endless energy. He loves to read, especially comics because he loves to laugh and is always finding the humor in life. He is the kindest big brother to little Titus and I love watching their relationship grow. His tender heart and peaceful, sensitive spirit can often be taken for granted or overlooked, but I treasure it. He is a gift and a joy!

a very special tenth

As November neared to a close, our sweet Philippa turned 10 years old. This was a much anticipated birthday as she had told me weeks in advance that turning 10 was very special and that this birthday needed to be extra special. Of course, she’s absolutely right! She requested doughnuts for breakfast, chicken soup and rolls for dinner and a cake that was half vanilla, half chocolate with vanilla frosting. Titus was delighted with the balloons when he woke up. He was quite interested in the doughnuts on the table, but the sweetest part was that when it was time to begin he picked one and then placed it carefully on Philippa’s plate for her. For her gifts, she received a magic 8 ball which she desperately wanted, her hand knit sweater, a couple of skirts, a new set of Kingdom of Wrenly books, a stationary set, and a lego dragon set that she had asked for.

God graced her birthday with his own special gift, sending the first snow flurries of the winter! Being that snow wasn’t in the forecast, we were all especially delighted and ran outside to enjoy it while it lasted. It was such a beautiful day!

Appropriately, Philippa had asked for a “snowman” cake for this birthday. It was sort of a random request but she decorated it exactly as she wanted. It seemed fitting for this day which held the first snow flurries!

There’s something about the end of the day, the blowing out of the candles in the dark, the end of that year and the beginning of a new year of life. It is something sacred watching their faces aglow, lit up by all the candles marking each of those years, all a gift of grace. It’s always bittersweet for me. I treasure these fleeting days so much, and can feel time slipping through my fingers like sand.

To mark the very special occasion of turning 10, Philippa and I also had a night away together to my parents nearby airbnb where we had meals of her choosing, stayed up late watching movies, soaking in the hot tub, sharing a king-sized bed (she always wants to try sleeping in a very big bed) and doing some shopping in town together the next day. It was a delight and will be treasured in my heart forever, hopefully hers also.

She had also asked to have a small birthday party with friends. I don’t typically do a lot of parties, but this felt like the right time. Philippa so enjoyed her week of “chef’s camp” this past summer and really has an interest in cooking, so we decided to throw her a chef’s themed birthday party (on a different weekend). She and I created a menu together and basically recreated a mini “chef’s camp” experience for her friends. It was a bit crazy and chaotic all jammed together in the kitchen with 7 10-year-old girls but it was a blast! I think it was a hit.

In the end, she was quite spoiled with all the festivities and hopefully my sweet Philippa-girl had the best 10th birthday ever. I hope her little heart was full with all the love showered on her. It was truly unforgettable!

summer memories, a new school year, and Hurricane Helene

As usual, we spent a lot of time in water play of some sort over the summer. The kids all got into filling a tuperware in the backyard with water and pelting each other with reusable water balloons. Phoebe and Philippa enjoyed another week of drama camp this summer. Phoebe got the lead role in her play as Rapunzel, Philippa was the Big Bad Wolf, and they both did such a great job. Phoebe had to memorize 30 lines in a few days, which she did beautifully, as well as sing a solo. She never ceases to amaze me with her enthusiasm and courage! Philippa also did a week of chef’s camp, which was a highlight of the summer for her, but I don’t have any photos of that to share. I took some spinning classes at a local fiber guild and thoroughly enjoyed that little endeavor! I finished my first fully handspun yarn on the drop spindle and knitted a cowl with it. It is one of my favorite projects ever, there truly is something exceptional in knowing you spun the yarn yourself and then getting to knit with it and wear it. Surely a thrill only fiber enthusiasts would understand. :). Brandon took Noah on his first backpacking trip, a father-son trip with a handful of other dads and their sons. They travelled a section of the Appalachian Trail and had a blast. It was an aggressive amount of mileage for Noah for a weekend (20+ miles in one weekend) in rainy conditions, but he thoroughly enjoyed it and it was a highlight for him over the summer. Noah is a strong hiker and not easily worn out, nor did he complain about the grueling nature of backpacking in the rain.

August brought the beginning of another school year and those sweet “first day” photos.

It has felt like our busiest school year yet. My brain is literally spinning most days trying to keep up with the demands of the schedule we try to keep.

Then came Hurricane Helene at the end of September. These photos I took that Friday morning, September 27th, as the wild winds knocked out our power. I took a few photos and tried to distract the kids with candles and painting, before we really knew what we were dealing with and the extent of the damage.

All of these photos were from our yard or neighborhood as we walked and drove around. As we began to take in the damages around us, the severity of our circumstances began to sink in. The next days and weeks quickly became about survival of ourselves, our neighbors and friends, as many of us struggled with food/water/gas supplies, power and water outages. Looking back, I wish I had had the wherewithal to take more photos and record more of what was happening, but we were completely inundated and focused on locating supplies and caring for those around us. It was a trying, stressful, and traumatic time, but we also saw people taking such good care of one another, and it was beautiful to see. Our plans for fall camping and many other things that we usually enjoy in the most beautiful time of year here in Western North Carolina were interrupted, but we are grateful to have sustained such minimal damage and can hardly complain.

Again, I will be back soon sharing a bit more about the last few months of 2024. I hope you’re enjoying these brief little summaries of our year!

summer things

Our school days finally gave way to river days enjoying the sun, quiet, and leisurely exploration. Although I’ve kept the garden a bit smaller and simpler this year, it has still kept us (me) busy with weeding and maintenance, bringing delight with every bit of fruit from that labor. Phoebe has planted wildflowers and zinnias in her garden box. We’ve welcomed the days of hammock snuggles and reading, being outdoors before the heat and humidity wipe us out and chase us back in. I’ve tried to be more intentional this summer about having one child assigned per night to help me cook, more of a discipline for myself and a treat for them. Philippa participated in “chef’s camp” a couple of weeks ago, and the kids all have VBS and drama camp coming up soon. It has been a year since we began our kitchen remodel, and it is nearly done, although it has led into doing shiplap down the hallway and redoing our kitchen fireplace area. So the project lingers on, as they usually do, squeezed in between all the regular activities and interruptions of life. Maybe I’ll get around to sharing a post about the kitchen project eventually.

I took “end of year” school pictures of the kids.

It was a good year, but didn’t feel like our best. Does one always feel this way when wrapping up a homeschool year, a bit drained and overwhelmed with all that seemed to slip through the cracks? Phoebe was more independent this year, doing curriculum mainly chosen by our classical homeschool co-op. She excelled but I missed connecting with her. My hands felt very full beginning kindergarten with Wren and juggling a nursing napping baby in the midst of it all, while still being quite sleep-deprived. Wren enjoyed doing writing lessons and math, but found reading to be difficult although she progressed so well during the year. It always feels like a small miracle and glorious mercy to launch another child into reading. Philippa worked well through third grade without any major hiccups. She’s a diligent student and really took off with reading chapter books this year. Titus learned how to walk and is beginning to say little words here and there, and we celebrate every little bit of it. Phoebe received a very difficult medical diagnosis at the end of January/early February that wiped us all out emotionally for some time as we reeled and adjusted, spending a lot of time in doctor’s offices doing tests. She has begun some medications, and we have had a lot of learning and processing to do. Some days it all still feels very painful, overwhelming, and sad. She, however, has risen to the challenge with faith and joy, true to her character. Noah wrapped up fifth grade, officially closing the chapter on the “elementary” years and beginning “middle school” this autumn, which feels like another big shift. I’ve tried to give myself a good measure of grace in light of all of this as I look back over the school year. There were other changes and challenges I won’t mention here. It was actually quite a hard year to strive for consistency and excellence. Some days it really felt like just keeping our heads above water and I finished the year feeling very spent. Some years are like that, though. Still a sweet year of learning and growing together, while walking through a lot of ups and downs. I’m endlessly grateful for this amazing work of home education, though it truly stretches me beyond capacity and certainly causes me to be dependent on the Lord in ways I never could have imagined. It is so fruitful and sweet, even in the hard “off” years.

Since wrapping up our school year, I have begun a major project of reorganizing and cleaning up the school room. It hasn’t been done for quite a few years now, and our kitchen remodel threw everything into a greater level of disarray than usual. Every day I’m taking as much time as I can to sort, minimize, and begin planning for next year. I often underestimate how long this takes and also how awesome it feels to declutter and bring order back to the chaos. It is breathing new life into our school space.

a spring birthday + a historical farm visit

Dear little Wren-wren turned six on March 3rd, when the hellebore were blooming and the frosty mornings gave way to the scent of warming soil. She received a new dress, as she does every year (and I’m grateful she is still excited about that), as well as a new hand knit sweater. She also received a new book of course, as well as a small camera that prints photos, with a few other goodies. Already I have forgotten some of the details of her day, but I know it was a delight and joy to celebrate this happy little girl who can’t wait to grow up.

We gathered with some fellow homeschooling friends to visit a local historical home and farm, the Historic Johnson farm. Touring the old home, doing a craft together, followed by touring the school house and a tractor ride on the grounds to visit the goats and bees was a delight to us all. It is sweet to step back in time and see how people lived in the late 1800s. I love all the old farmhouse elements so it was a delight to tour. Afterwards we had a big group picnic on the grounds. It was the first time in a long time that I took my old camera along for photos instead of using my phone, reawakening my love for capturing moments in this way. With computer issues preventing me from uploading photos until recently, I sort of abandoned my camera for awhile. It is so good to pick it up again and play.

Don’t you just love the old homes? I get so much inspiration for design for my own home. There is also a heritage weavers and fiber arts building on the farm and I plan to take a spinning class here next month, which I’m very excited about. It’s always enriching to connect with local fiber artists. Little field trip excursions like this really enliven our homeschool days, and I’m always grateful for the way spring brings a bit more breathing room into our schedule to allow for them.

welcoming Titus

Titus Wilder, born February 28, 2023 at 11:46 am, 9 lb 14 oz.

As you can see, he was so loved and adored from the beginning. All the hands and all the holding. These were some of the sweetest moments of my life, holding that newborn chunk of sweet-smelling goodness and watching everyone meet him and snuggle him for the first time. I was induced for his birth the day before his due date because we were concerned about his size. It is the only time I have been induced and though it wouldn’t be my preference, it went fairly well. His birth was relatively straight forward and without complication. I cried when he was born with such an intense wash of relief and joy that all was well. I remember one of the nurses also cried and said it was such a special birth. We took nearly our whole hospital stay to settle on a name for him and felt that God led us to Titus. Brandon really liked Wilder for his middle name.

I’m grateful that despite the delirium and fog of those early days, I took the time to snap a few newborn photos, the only ones I captured. I haven’t shared them anywhere before. I remember being completely spent and sweaty after the couple of hours it took to get everyone dressed and trying to get decent shots by ourselves without a tripod, but it was worthwhile!

Then before we knew it, we were celebrating his first birthday. One whole year of waking up each morning to his snuggles and squish, everyone piling into our bed arguing over who would be first to hold him. Even at 16 months old, this is still the daily routine, their enjoyment of him strong as ever. It has been the sweetest season even amidst other difficulties, sacred and precious beyond words as we consider what a gift each child is, what a miracle, and we drink in the pure blessedness of it.

yarn along

Nearing the end of November and the beginning of the Advent season now, and it has been weeks now since I posted. I do hope to have my computer issues remedied soon but there just has been no time or energy! I’m a bit technology adverse too so I’m sure that doesn’t help. I do have so many photos and things to share which does motivate me to press through the tedium of technology changes to get photos uploaded.

For now, just a simple yarn along post to pop in and say hello, to share what I’ve been knitting and reading lately. I finished Philippa’s birthday sweater in good time for her birthday and she really loves it. Pretty quickly afterward I cast on Noah’s birthday sweater. I’m knitting him a beautiful cabled sweater, which does move a little slower for me and requires more attention, but it will be worth it.

The kids and I have been reading Secret of the Woods aloud. It was a bit slow to get into, but we are really enjoying it. The way the author describes his observations of animals in the woods seems to slow us all down and immerse us in that natural setting, having such a calming effect. The stories are memorable, too. The kids often recount things learned from this book as we encounter an animal in our own nature explorations.

I hope you had a lovely Thanksgiving and may you have a sweet start to the Christmas season.
xo

Martha

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yarn along

Hello!

It’s October and my soul is so happy to welcome this most favorite and beautiful month. I haven’t been posting here because I’ve had computer troubles. Our very old desktop which I use to post this blog and to store my photos is finally dying. It will no longer open WordPress, and I’ve been having issues downloading photos from my camera. Boy do I have some catching up to do! But I’m not sure when or if it will ever happen. My phone is also having issues and wouldn’t let me email this photo to myself so that I could post it via Brandon’s laptop. All that to say, I’m bummed to have been so absent in this space and I miss blogging, but I’m not really sure what the future holds in that regard.

However, I finally figured out a way to get at least this post up! I have been knitting away on a new cast on that I’ve been contemplating for some time. I purchased this beautiful Wensleydale yarn from Woolly Mammoth Fibre Co a few years ago and have had trouble knowing what to knit with it because I only have two skeins. Of course it would have made a beautiful shawl, but I wanted a garment. So, I’m attempting to knit the brightfeather sweater but I’m playing some serious yarn chicken, so my tentative plan is to make it short-sleeved. We’ll see how it goes! One of the loveliest things about knitting is that if a project doesn’t work, one can always rip it out and reuse the yarn for something else.

I’ve been reading the third book in the Mitford series, These High Green Hills, and enjoying it. Also, I’ve been intermittently reading Humble Roots by Hannah Anderson, and have enjoyed it also. I was drawn to it because of the connections she makes between plants and the spiritual concept of humility. It’s a library book that is overdue so I need to finish it pronto!

So if you’re still here and reading along despite my spotty blogging as of late, I’d love to hear what you are making and reading lately?

Hope you are well, friends.

xo
Martha

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